A final word: We also know that sometimes you have surprises for each other -- ie: surprise gifts or a special cake. Please let us know if there is anything we should keep our mouths shut about 🙂 And if there is anything you'd like to discuss in private, please email us separately.
Lastly, please keep in mind that it's best to let the key people in your wedding know that we should stick to a timeline and try not to do anything spontaneous without first letting your us/your photographer/DJ, etc. know. Example: If your Dad wants to give an impromptu speech at the wedding and just walks up to the DJ and asks for the microphone, there's a good chance we are outside flying the drone, getting cake shots, or just using the restroom. We'd HATE to miss this -- but if it's not on the timeline, we aren't looking out for moments like this.
So just remember we need a heads up first... even if it's just a few minutes. Candids, people mingling, random things throughout the day? Sure -- we'll get these. But as a golden rule, bigger "planned moments" like speeches... or mom opening a special gift... or grandma seeing you for the first time... we WANT to get these but they are not guaranteed to be filmed or recorded with the best audio if it's not on our schedule or discussed prior. So let us know whenever possible. Thank you so much for taking the time to fill out all these details, they really do help. Talk to you soon!